他心中还有前任的10个表现

如果你的男朋友有过前任,那你是不是总忍不住怀疑,他真的忘干净了吗?他是不是还在怀念?如果前任找他他会怎么办?他更喜欢谁?

Well,普特君今天就给大家分享10个他心中还有前任的表现,仅供参考哟。

10. Talks About Her A Lot

老是谈起她

This is one of the most obvious and annoying signs that your man is still thinking about his ex. If he is always finding ways of bringing her into the conversation, chances are, he is just finding excuses to talk about her.

这是最明显也是最恼人的一个迹象,说明你男人还在想他前任。如果他总是找机会跟你谈起前任,那只是他想找借口来说一说她罢了。

This does not mean he does not like you, it just means he needs to get closure before he can let someone else into his heart.

这并不意味着他不喜欢你,他只是需要在另一个人进入他的心里前跟前任做个了断。

9. Stalks Her Social Media

在社交媒体上关注她

你们有没有过这种经验,打开你男朋友的微博,点开搜索框,那里自动弹出来的人名就是你男朋友经常搜索的,更糟的是,没准还有一个就是前女友,wtf......

Guys may not admit to this, but they do a little stalking themselves. Regardless of what they tell you, men like to know what is up with the girl that they can’t get out of their minds.

男生们内心深处并不想承认,可他们确实会默默的关注前任。无论他是怎么跟你说的,但是对于心中那个忘不掉的女孩,他还是想偷偷的关注。

8. Keeps In Touch With Her

和她联系

It is one thing to get a text here and there but it is another thing to be talking to an ex on a daily and if you find your boyfriend always finding excuses to chat with his ex then maybe you should start coming up with excuses to leave his ass!

跟前任偶尔联系一两句和每天都联系这是两码事,如果你男朋友总是找借口和前任联系,那你也应该开始找借口让他滚蛋了!

If a man is in love with a woman he is not going to seek attention from his ex-girlfriend, that is what little boys do. Listen, it is understandable to keep an open dialogue relationship with an ex, meaning wishing them a happy birthday or asking them a question here and there but when it becomes a weekly routine that is when the problem becomes visible.

如果一个男人真的喜欢一个女人,他是不会在前女友那里寻求存在感的——这是小屁孩才会做的事。听着,跟前任还保持着公开的联系,发个生日祝福或者问个问题也是可以理解的,但是如果跟前任联系变成了每周必备,那这问题可就严重了。

7. Keeps Photos Of The Two Of Them 

还保留着他俩的照片

在这个时代,跟前任之间没拍照片才不正常,但是,如果他还把照片摆在房间,社交网络上也都是前任的照片,那这就不正常了。

Women may be crazy at times, but we are able to understand (not accept) that our boyfriends were in love before us, however, we do not need to see photo evidence of this time. All that should be cleared up before the two of you get too serious or else it will cause a lot of tension in the long run.

女孩子们总会时不时发个疯,但是我们也是可以理解(并不是接受),我们的男朋友们在遇到我们之前也曾恋爱过,但是,我们并不需要看到那些照片来告诉我们你们经历了多么美好的时光。如果是想发展一段认真的感情,那这些照片就应该被清理好,不然长此以往,肯定会带来很多不安。

6. Has Called You By Her Name

把你叫成她

相信很多小仙女们看到这个小标题就已经炸了......

As humans, our subconscious is something that we do not understand well, but it tends to know you very well. If your boyfriend keeps calling you by his ex’s name, there is some psycho-analysis that will show that she is subconsciously who he is thinking of.

作为人类,我们对自己的潜意识并没有很了解,但是潜意识对我们内心的真实想法却了解的很。如果你的男朋友总是把你的名字叫成前女友,也许一些心理学方面的分析会告诉你,她才是他内心所想的人。

5. Compares You To Her

拿你跟前任比较

很多小仙女是不是都经历过这一点,是不是想想都要气炸了?普特君现在告诉你,所有这么做的男人都是笨!蛋!

When a man starts comparing you to other women, especially other women he has been with, it can cause a large rift in your relationship.

当你男朋友拿你和其他女人比较,尤其是他曾经好过的女人,这会使你们的感情出现如东非大裂谷般巨大的裂缝。

A lot of men do not realize they are doing it which is why you should communicate it with them, however, if it is something that becomes a habit I am not sure how long your relationship will last.

很多男人并没有意识到他们这样做了,所以你需要跟他交谈。但是如果这已经成为他的习惯,那本人实在不确定你们还能好多久了。

4. Keeps Her Things

保存着她的东西

Have you ever been walking around our boyfriend’s place and noticed all the little things that were left behind by the ex? For example, he hairbrush, or little knick-knacks she made or even more personal items like clothing. This is normal, to a certain extent.

你有没有去过你男朋友住的地方吗?有没有注意到他前任留下的那些小东西?比如说梳子啦,小饰品啦,或者是更私人的一些东西,比如说衣服。在某种程度上来说这是正常的。

As women, we need to understand that men do not think like us when it comes to this kind of thing- most men do not even notice what was left behind. That is why we as their new ladies, need to tell them. Then after they are told, if they still feel the need to keep those items, then maybe that should be of concern to you.

作为女孩儿,我们需要明白男生在面对这个问题上跟我们想的也许不一样——很多男的也许根本没有意识到他屋里还有这些东西呢。这也是为什么作为他们的新女友,我们需要告诉他们。如果你已经跟他说过了,他还是想保留这些东西,那你也许应该好好考虑了。

3. Loves Sharing Their Memories With You

喜欢跟你分享他们曾经的美好回忆

If you find your boyfriend constantly living in his memories with his ex, it could be a sign that he is yearning to go back to those days, when they were together and happy.

如果你发现你男朋友总是沉浸在和前任的回忆里,这表明他很想回到过去他们在一起的幸福时光。

You need to explain to him that this hurts your feelings or makes you uncomfortable and if he truly cares he will consciously make an effort to stop!

你应该告诉他,这样会伤害到你的感情,让你感觉不舒服,如果他真的在乎你的话,他不会再这么做的!

2. He Hesitates When Choosing Between You And Her

选你还是选她?他犹豫了

Okay,我们来做一个设想。

如果你正在跟一个男生恋爱中,这时候他的前女友回来了,告诉他愿意再给他一个机会,那他会怎么做呢?

Picking her over you is an obvious one, however, if he is hesitating in any way, shape, or form then you should make the choice easy for him and walk away.

选她不选你那这结果就很明显了,但如果他犹豫了呢?那,也许你应该主动离开,成全他们。

As a woman, you should never stand for being someones second choice or last option. You need to understand what you are worth and if the man who has your heart is not sure if he wants it then he definitely does not deserve it.

作为一个女人,你不应该成为他人退而求其次的选择,甚至是最后的选择。你应该明白自己的价值,如果你把自己的心交给一个男人,而他却还不确定自己想不想要,那他根本就不值得你付出。

1. Always Defends Her

总是为她辩护

How annoying would it be if your boyfriend was always defending another girl? Imagine if that girl was his ex, it would be even more annoying!

想一想,如果你男朋友总是为另一个女生辩护,那该有多讨厌?如果这个女生刚好是他的前女友呢?是不是感觉要疯?

Men are protective and defensive of the people they love most, so if you find your man always taking his ex’s back this should be a red flag for you– do not just ignore it.

男人对自己所爱之人具有非常强的保护欲,所以,如果发现你男朋友总是挺他的前女友,你可千万不能忽视这个现象。

看完这10个现象,不知道大家的膝盖还好吗......

欢迎各位留言吐槽,还有哪些现象表明对方心中还有前任呢?不论男女哦~

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